How To Tell Your Boyfriend You Need Some Space
Everyone among us who share a romantic relationship with another individual, knows how strange ‘love’ can be.At one point of time, it makes us difficult to stay, even a few minutes away from our beloved. And at times, we may feel the need of staying away from each other.
The real art lies in enjoying both togetherness and ‘personal time’, in a relationship. However, asking for space in a relationship can be a difficult task for some people.
We know that a lot of women, who are reading this article at this moment, are desperately looking for space in their relationship. But they are unable to get it because they don’t know how to approach their partners.
Well, it might hurt his ego, but can you compromise with your own freedom? Absolutely, no. So, here are some tips on how to tell your boyfriend you need some space:
Figure Out The Reason
Before you ask your boyfriend for space, it’s better to have a talk with yourself. Ask yourself, why you need space.Once you have the answer, it will be much easier for you to decide on what you must communicate to him.
Is it because of another man in your life or because you think that you should spend more time with yourself? If you think that you need space because you are into another man, then come out of the present relationship.
How Long Do You Want Him To Wait
Well, it would be foolish of you to expect that your boyfriend will wait forever to see when you change your perception. In fact, it would be better if it’s clear in your mind that a space may mean breakup to him.
Therefore, it’s better to provide him with a time span; say for three months (but not more than that). Sometimes, you may think that it might go beyond three months; in that case, it’s better to bid adieu to the relationship.
Don’t Test His Love For You
Some women have the eagerness to know how much their boyfriends love them.Well, there are many ways which can be incorporated to know your partner’s love for you.However, if you are thinking about asking for some space to see whether he is craving for you or not; beware, you are making a very wrong move.
This is not a good way of testing him.You never know, if he ever finds out that you asked for space because you wanted to test him, you are going to have a hard time!
Prepare Yourself For The Outcome
If you ask a man for some space he may agree with you and deal with the fact that you need freedom.However, it may also happen that he is considering your demand of space as an official breakup. Therefore, he may not want you back in his life. In that case, you should not feel bad or neglected.
You are the one who asked for space and he gave it to you. Now accept the fact that he is strong enough to move ahead in life and start dating other women.
So, keep this above statements in your mind and then ask your man for the space that you are looking for.